Listen to Your Child: Building a Stronger Parent-Child Bond
Build a better bond by truly listening to your child. Short Excerpt:
Have you ever felt like your child ignores you or argues back until you’re frustrated? Often, we wonder why our kids won’t listen, but a better question might be: Are we listening to them? Truly listening means giving your child space to share their thoughts and feelings—without judgment, interruption, or rushing in to teach.
1. Listen with Your Heart, Not Just Your Ears
When your child speaks, put down your phone and turn off distractions. Face them fully so they know you’re genuinely interested. This simple act shows that you value their words.
2. Resist the Urge to Lecture
Parents often slip into “teaching mode” the moment their child starts talking. Instead, just listen and ask, “Do you want me to help, or just hear you out?” Sometimes, kids only need a listening ear, not a solution.
3. Reflect Their Feelings
If your child says, “I don’t want to go to school,” avoid responding with, “Don’t be lazy!” Try, “What makes you feel that way? I’m here to listen.” Validating their feelings can make them feel heard and understood.
Remember: Listening Builds Bridges
Children model what they see. When they feel heard, they’ll be more open to hearing you, too. Listening is the bridge that strengthens the parent-child relationship, one conversation at a time.
